CONSOLE AN IRRITATING CHILD

CONSOLE AN IRRITATING CHILD
CHILDREN....though how innocent and  good they may be but,sometimes behave adamant,arrogant ,be fussy,crying and behaving in a  peculiar way..this may be due to stress.

• And when they wont play,dont eat their favourite items too,all these symptoms say that,they may be under stress.
• Not only elders but even children have stress related problems,though small they consider them as big problem.
• The elders ..especially the mothers, has to watch them,convince them and bring back to normal position.
• First, the moms has to show love ,affection,and convince their kid and has  to know the cause of the irritation of their kid .

• Causes of stress in kids....Children are very sensitive..and if they are given more home works which are more than the kids capacity ,or if the teacher scolds before other  students,they  feel inferior and insulted,this may be the cause of the stress.
• If the kids feel that they are not cared for, they feel alone and depressed, and will be stressed..
• Kids may feel inferior,if their friends purchase any new school bag,new shoes or dress or toys etc.
• Sometimes children may fight in between themselves,and may feel that their close friend is not talking to him/her.
• Some children,when they see the violence like explosions in televisions,or scenes in wars they may get panic and disturbed.

• How to know the cause of your childs stress ..
• The parents have to observe the kids nature until they are big.And if the child behaviour is differant and  not usual..talk to her/him.
• Dont be so strict when they get less marks,as some children will be over sensitive .Encourage them..to get more marks in the next examination, or tell them to try once again,like this encourage them, give them courage.
• Make a habbit of talking to them friendly daily,and enquire about the routine they had,in their school and friends matters.
• Only if you are not over strict with your kid,then only you can know all about her/his friends or school matters etc.
• If  other friends in the school,tease your child,tell her/him to take it easy ,and tell your child  to take it sportively.
• Take them to dinners ,and spend quality time with the kids,play with them,and see  cartoon movies with them quite often whenever you are free.Let them feel  free and open with you.
• Now when  they feel free,they will open their mind and disclose  what is going in their mind.
• At least  either of the parents,spend some of your time with kids in the evenings daily .
• Let the kids talk freely, with their loving mom and dad ,and share what is going on in their minds so you can advice them.
• In recent modern times,the parents know the value of their children and behaving in a decent way unlike olden days..but still a small percentage of people are adamant.
• Be friendly with them,and as in the case of TV violance,tell them that these are quite common and not to feel or take to heart.
• Regarding scenes related to wars,tell them how the soldiers inorder to save their country people,fight for their country with courage.
• Tell your child only with courage a person can achieve his goal.

• Find out what the problem is in your childs mind,and try to console him and figure out with a solution..after all a mother is her childs bestest friend